The Diavorce Solutionist

Episode 18 – Levels of Conflict in Family Court

Are you caught up in a web of conflict in family court? Tracey Bee is back to tackle the levels of conflict you may encounter. This episode doesn’t shy away from the tough realities of fighting for your family’s future. We’re going deep into the high, medium, and low ends of the conflict spectrum – because knowing is half the battle.

In this episode, we dissect the different levels of conflict encountered in family court cases. Whether you self represent or have an attorney, there’s powerful insight here for you. Buckle up as we navigate the tumultuous waters of high conflict situations, the more strategic medium conflict encounters, and how some cases just skirt by with low conflict.


What You’ll Learn:

*What we really mean when we talk about conflict in family court scenarios.

*How to identify if you’re the high conflict party in a dispute – it might surprise you.

*The introduction of “medium conflict” – the sweet spot you might want to aim for.

*Personal anecdotes and professional insights gleaned from 20 years in family court.

*The distinct hallmarks of a high conflict case and why it’s likely to drain your resources.

*What characterizes a low conflict situation, and the potential pitfalls of settling too quickly.

*Medium conflict: A strategic middle ground that could save future headaches.

*Why your attorney might be escalating your case into high-conflict territory.

*Insights into self-reflection, planning, and strategy formulation in family court battles.

📚 Timestamped overview


00:00 I discuss conflict in family court.
05:18 Conflicting perspectives create high conflict situations.
09:08 High conflict cases waste time, money, energy.
13:12 Dealing with conflict, make informed, rational choices.
17:02 Efficient decision-making reduces family court conflicts.
18:23 Assess, strategize, and work to reduce conflict.

Prepare for an insightful analysis that will redefine conflict in its entirety, from scoffing at the high conflict label others may attach to you, to understanding why resolving a disagreement quickly isn’t always in the best interest of your children. We’re talking strategy—those tangible steps you can use to steer your case from high-stress to managed conflict.

So, sharpen your pencils, clear your mind, and get ready to take your approach from defensive to informed and assertive. As always, I’m here to help breakdown the process and provide that much-needed clarity. Let’s transform your strife into strategy and ensure your family dispute sails toward constructive resolution. This is Tracey, and you’re about to master the art of conflict in family court—let’s dive in.

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

Need help in handling your Family Court case on your own?

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Tracey Bloodsaw

Tracey Bee (Host)

Pro Se Family Court Strategist

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