The Diavorce Solutionist

Episode 14: Tactics for Each “Lane” of Your Divorce or Custody Case pt. 2

Family court – often seen as a sanctuary for resolving family matters in the best interest of the child, but it is the complete opposite. Tracey Bee continues to delve into the raw and ugly reality of family court. But in this episode she takes us behind the scenes to expose what really goes on with in-court divorce and custody battles. In this eye-opening episode, Tracey sheds light on the complexities and sometimes alarming aspects of family courts.


What You’ll Learn:

– The misconceptions about family court’s primary objective and the stark reality that’s often ignored.
– The hidden meaning behind “the best interest of the child” – physically, emotionally, developmentally, intellectually, and spiritually.

– The variations in applying the ‘best interest’ standards across different courts and the negative impact it has.

– The evolution of custody principles from the 1960s to the present day.

– The truth about judges’ discretion and limited oversight in family court.

– The significant impact of temporary orders on long-term outcomes in family court cases.

– The challenges of co-parenting under temporary court orders.

– The reality of presenting evidence and testimony in family court.

– Strategies for navigating the complexities of the family court system.

Family court is riddled with complexities and subjectivities, challenging the widely-held perception that it is solely child-centric. This episode marks the start of a deeper exploration into the critical and often misunderstood topic of family court. Join us for next week’s episode, where we will continue unraveling the intricacies of family court proceedings.

📚 Timestamped overview

00:00 Monitoring compliance with temporary court orders for evidence.

05:48 Judges may see it as too controlling.

07:33 Prepare thoroughly before addressing legal matters.

13:34 Be mindful, be responsible, seek support.

17:28 Learn patience, prepare for trial in advance.

18:21 Study court process, procedure, evidence, and preparation.

Family Court can be traumatic! And trying to handle your case on your own can be even more catastrophic. There are twists & turns at every stage that you need to be aware of and to prepare for. Having a solid Gameplan and someone to help you execute it effectively can make all the difference in the Universe (not just the world.) We know all about the bias, corruption, and dysfunction being handed out by the system. We just want you to have a fighting chance by leveling the playing field.

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Tracey Bloodsaw

Tracey Bee (Host)

Pro Se Family Court Strategist

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